MoooLiCious

Korea House@Sri Hartamas

2009-12-21T00:46:00.000+08:00

Date: 28 Nov 2009
Venue: Sri Hartamas
Crew: Nicole Lee and Molly Chong

We went to a fashion bazaar - "Pick n Grab" @ Sri Hartamas. After that, we went for a brunch around that area. Both of us are not familiar with that place at all. It is surprise to see a lot of Korean and Japanese Restaurants there. If next time you are thinking to have Korean or Japanese Food, this area is a good choice. We had hard time choosing what and where to eat. Finally, we had made up our mind to have our meal at this restaurant called Korea House due to our budget constraints xD

Korea House@Sri Hartamas

Its look freaky from the outside, with the scary lift and staircase. There was a moment me and nicole were thinking to change restaurant, luckily we did not xD

the creepy walkway to the lift

Korea House interior

The food are great there, and most of all, the manager is super duper nice. We had hard time choosing what to eat as well. There were too much stuffs that we want to try. Both of us order Bibimbab, literally means "mixed rice". The food made us feel really healthy because is a vegetarian dish full of fresh vegetables like carrots, cucumber, and etc. It taste a bit spicy with the sauce along and refreshing in the same time. Oh ya, There's a complimentary soup with the rice and the whole set is only cost RM12.

Bibimbab Set with Soup

How can we miss their Korean BBQ when we actually eating at a Korean Restaurant =P The BBQ Pork Belly taste awesome with the lettuce wrapping. But the sauce a little bit too salty for me.

Pork Belly BBQ - you have to wrap it with lettuce, garlic and some sauces

The manager gave us a complimentary Korean Pancake and not to mention about the Korean Appetizer that he keep refilling for us. The pancake is just ok. As for the appetizer, I'm not a big fan of Kimchi, but others are not bad.

Korean Appetizer

Last but not least, the manager also gave us an extra 10% discount. The whole meal only take us RM49. haha! Overall, is a really nice dining experience @ Korean House. Services and Food are marvelous. The only weakness is the place which is a bit too creepy.

a complimentary dessert after our meal!

The Bill!

Tony Romas @ The Gardens (20/11/2009)

2009-11-29T20:29:00.000+08:00

It's been really a while since the last time i blog about myself here. Well the boring life of working make me feel like blogging again. At least blogging add some spices to my life =D

Well, i will continue blog about food (since is my passion of going all around to find nice food, and this had cause me gain a lot of weight T.T)

Went to Mid Valley last Friday (20 Nov) with my bestie, Amy. Is a disaster to take KTM from KL Sentral at peak hours. The train only come after 45 min of delay, and everybody is squeezing to get in to avoid another long hours of waiting. Did i forget to mention, YA! i was being sexual harassment as well. A guy come to me so close and kinda "stick" his private part to my ASS. One advise, never ever take KTM at peak hours (7-9am, 5-8pm) I really feel like i was taking a train at India. Children crying, people shouting, and the air circulation was so bad. Anyone can faint in this terrible situation.

Yes, i just join the working society. and as a freshie, i can't afford to drive a car to work. All i can do is to spend at least 4 hours go and return with the public transport everyday. You can see this everyday in the public transport. Everybody became so selfish just to get to their destination. When you actually look at the cars around the Klang Valley, you won't surprise how many cars is actually having 1 person inside. Who want to take the public transport if they can afford a car? Malaysia, what's wrong with your public system?

oops. i supposed to blog about food isn't it xD

Finally when we reach Mid Valley!! but we couldn't decide what we want to eat. Then i remember i saw this ads in the newspaper and i cut it down (advantage of working in ads firm with a lot of exposure of information to all the commercial and advertisement) . YES - Tony Romas had this awesome promotion - when you cut out the ads in the newspaper, you get a rebate of RM10. and if you own a CIMB credit card, you get another additional 10% discount. So we decided to makan there.

we order a soup of the day - some onion soup which i forget the name, a plate of Tony's Asian Salads, and a red hot Buffalo Wings. The onion soup is quite nice, not creamy like mushroom soup.

I don't really like the dressing of the Tony's Asian Salads, is a little bit too sweet. After a few spoon i don't feel like eating anymore. Same goes to the red hot Buffalo Wings. The waiter suggest us to take the honey sauce. it just so wrong when it combine with the Salads that taste sweet as well. At the end of the day, we just forcing ourself to finish the plate.

Tony's Asian Salads

Red Hot Buffalo Wings

Guess how much is the bill at the end? the whole meal is so worthy cause is only RM30.10 after using the coupon and CIMB credit card =D Overall is a nice experience eating here even though the waiters are not so friendly. When we were at the reception area waiting to be seated, we ask them about the coupon. Guess what the waiter reply us? "Oh, so you come here because you want to use the coupon?" Isn't it the purpose for the restaurant to attract more people when they use this strategy? lol

Happy Birthday Nicole =)

2009-05-02T01:49:00.000+08:00

updates*

2009-01-03T03:33:00.007+08:00

the beautiful smiley sky few weeks ago

1. Ricson's Date
People: Ricson, Kai Way, Mad and Molly
Location: Sunway Pyramid, NZX
went out with Ricson and his girlfriend few weeks ago. we went to sunway and later on have dinner at NZX..here is some stunning photos that Ricson took at their christmas and new year exhibition there =) congrats to Ricson, finally you become a big boy with a girl =P

2. Nandos, Souq Putrajaya
People: Mad and Molly
Location: Souq, Putrajaya
went to a date at Putrajaya just to breath in some cool air and look at the sunset due to the tension of assignments i felt..nice snack platter from Nandos and beautiful view of Putrajaya Sunset =D lovin it!

3. Christmas Party
People: my Family, Nicole, Emily, Seening, Mad, Nanny, Uncle, Herlie, Huay Chin, Kai Way and etc...
Location: Banting House
Date: 24th December 2008
well, a nice Christmas Party at home and retirement party for my dad and mum...will upload the photos soon..my brother did put a lot of effort to make this party work=) good job Ricson!

xmas gift for my girls =D
xmas gift for myself xD

4. Christmas Countdown
People: Nicole, Emily, Seening, Mad, Molly, WenFeng, Lekke, DuanDuan, Wei Ling, Lekke Family and Friends
Location: Cocoa Banana Sunway
Date: 24th December 2008
after the party at home, we went to Sunway for the purpose of count down but end up we stuck in the traffic for 1 and a half hour and reach the destination at 12.30am, which means we missed the countdown..but thanks god later on we met Lekke which is celebrating his birthday at the Club with his family and friends..so we join in their VIP seat and we do really have fun that night =)

5. BBQ
People: Nicole, Emily, Kensie, Ricson, Kai Way, Jack, Huay Chin, Mad, Emmanuel, Ibrahim, Yulduz ...
Location: Mad's House
BBQ night made by Mad, will upload the photos later=)

6. New Year Eve
People: Mad and Molly
Location: Mad's House
Date: 31st December 2008
the last day of 2008, made a candle light dinner for my dearest bf...thanks for being with me for the past few months and many years to come =) kinda rushing preparing for the meal, that's why doesnt look nice, hopefully will cook something even better next time =P

And Finally - - - -> HAPPY 2009 people!!

by the way, this is my 2009 new look--> mushroom hair xD

tweeking's bday - Full House, NZX

2008-11-16T16:34:00.004+08:00

Date: 13th November 2008, Thursday
Venue: Full House, NZX Ara Damansara
Food: Western
Friends: Shooting, SinYen, Emily, Nicole, TweeKing, CJ, XuanHao, XiaoYun, YenCheun, BoonWah, ChiuWen, Molly

well, is the fist week of our schooling day..nothing much to do because everyone still in the holiday mood..we went to this place call "Niu Che Shui" at Ara Damansara to celebrate Tweeking Bday..saw a place call Full House from KampungBoyCityGirl's Blog and we decided to go to this place and give it a try...
turn out tis place is beyond our expectation, is really beautiful...but i swear this place is freaking hard to find..we were lost for 1 hour plus around this area...but still, its worthy because we really did enjoy our time =)
still the Molicious rules =P...with 3F, u always njoy to the fullest =D

Food
Friends
Fun
LASTLY

Happy BIRTHDAY
Twee King

days after exam 4 - Vicky's Wedding

2008-11-05T21:31:00.018+08:00

Vicky's Wedding Part 1

Venue: Royal China, Jalan Ampang
Date: 2nd November 2008, Sunday
Food: Wedding Luncheon
Friends: too many to be listed =P

well, for ur information, Vicky is my 2nd Kai Jie( god sister)..i was taken care by a Nanny when i was baby..after that, she became my god mother n 2 of her beautiful daughter became my god sister..=)..it was a very nice wedding..Vicky is the prettiest bride i have ever seen so far..after u take a look at d photos, im sure u agree with my view =P

royal china
we belong to the bride family =P

little angel - Herlie - my 1st kaijie's daughter
grand hall
souvenir from berry's chocolate
VIP seat
preparation
herlie and ricson
before make up - the bride and groom
vicky will kill me for posting this photo =P
mother in law setting hair
nanny, me n queen (my 1st kaijie)
Wilson from Taiwan =P( my god brother) and me
ricson ( my real brother) and me =P
us again
entrance of happiness
cutie wei ru and me
cute little girls : ah li, wei ru, qing qing and herlie
here come the prettiest bride in the town

Vicky's Wedding Part 2

Venue: Nanny's House
Date: 4th November 2008, Tuesday
Food: Wedding Party and Home cook Dinner - Satay, Mihun, Rice, Vege, Pork, Rendang Chicken n etc..
Friends: too many to be listed =P

home cook FOOD

holidays with kidzhis name is yang yang - the most cheerful n talkative kid in the town =P
ah li and herlie

say "good"
herlie took this photo =P - Sid and Wilson
herlie took this as well - Queen
drunken Wilson
Sid and Ricson
chinese traditional wedding
tang yuan

i have no idea wht all these for xD

praying ceremony
this is the combing ceremony of chinese traditional wedding - it believe to bring good luck
after that, u have to swallow "tang yuan" like Vicky did =P..remember do not chew!!

Vicky's Wedding Part 3

Venue: Nanny's House
Date: 5th November 2008, Wednesday
Foods: Wedding Breakfast - Nasi Lemak, Cheese Tart, Mihun Goreng, Popiah, and Fruits
Friends: too many to be listed

make up in the early morning

done with the make upceremony againhere's d beautiful bride posing to the camera
me n vicky
breakfast
preparation v Queen
here comes the groom
Ricson, the door opener =P and Desmond, d groom
beautiful deco flowers
this is d flowers for the bride
superstar =P..the groom is ready to search for d bride
before entering here, u hav to deal v her 1st =P
d bride is sitting inside waiting for her groom to overcome all the "troubles" that create by d bridemaids
finally
true love kiss
hitting down to the hall
bridemaids and Queen
family potrait - from left to right: Nanny, Uncle, Queen, Vicky, Desmond, Herlie and Sid
me, ricson, vicky, desmond and herlie
goodbye kiss for mummy
leaving the house
byeleaving
the last ceremony

LASTLY, wana wish my pretty kaijie happy newly marry

days after exam 3 - Ipoh and KL

2008-11-05T20:35:00.007+08:00

finally i hav mood to sit down here n wrote down wht had happen on my holidays..hehe

well, ntg much but jz growing fats on my tummy and arms >.< the neighborhood of my new house

cousins

bday cake and grandpa

after came bek from Perak, i went to KL to visit my aunties and granny..well, one of my auntie is goin to Turkey for vacation nxt month..so i was accompanying her for shopping..we shop for 2 days straight..woman can nvr get enough of shopping ^.^

met former 98 degree member - Jeff Timmons at Sg Wang
holidays with kidz

i went to Puchong on Friday v my aunt to meet her clients..n we had a nice lunch there..here is d details..
Venue: Bumbu Bali, Bandar Puteri Puchong
Food: Balinese Food

Bumbu Balithe restaurant had a lot of antique and figures from Bali as decoration
umbrella
my auntie

forgot the name of this dishes, but is pretty nice

on Saturday, went to airport to fetch my bro..well, i missed a chance to Japan..i shuld jz follow him =(...anyway, he bought a lot of stuff from there..n he bought me a scarf..i love it a lot man =)

Japan Airport

morning sunlight of Tokyo
night of Tokyo
souvenir - Tokyo Banana

days after exam 2 - jackson's birthday

2008-10-23T02:22:00.009+08:00

Yesterday was our JACKSON YEW birthday..if you wonder who is him, let me introduce this man in my life xD...

well, this guy was one of my best buddy.. we knew each other since we were small because her mummy and my parents taught in the same school..we were in the same class only in our secondary school..he is those typical good boy in my class xD..one of a kind i will say..he nearly dominate our class monitor every year..except form 1 if im not mistaken xD
we get really close after this..he is one of those people out there that can wake up middle of the night and listen to me cried when i had problem..lolz...we entered MMU after our high school...too bad he stayed at Malacca campus and miss all of our fun at here xD...

chi shan, me, jackson, peishi, and chi yee

class photo'04

we just like snaping photos..yeah

our class monitor for years..oh, n tht fat guy is my dad xD

so here is the details how we celebrate his birthday this year

venue: Sunway Pyramid - Ice Monster, Sushi Zanmai
Food: Japanese Sushi and Rice, Ice cream ...
Friends: Jackson and Chin Leong

zanmai restaurant

green tea

unadon ~much nicer and larger than sushi king xD

me and jackson

me n ah long

~dessert at ice monster~

ah long's yam and red bean ~ tradition yet loyal guy..hehe

molly's mix fruits - just like my personality~the mixture of everythin xD

jackson's mango..just like his dirty yellow mind xD

~s2pid moment at some costume shop~

my hand with nails

Hi mr bean

stupiak xD

fallen angel

beauty and the beast xD

and last but not least =P

if you know how to read and the meaning xD

and HAPPY BUTTDAY to JACKSON YEW WEN LIANG

days after exams

2008-10-21T03:11:00.012+08:00

well here i am again to update bout myself recently..just finish exam~ofcourse is gonna be all about relaxation and party time xD

this semester was really a terrible semester for me..7 subjects were really killing me..i have to get use to this cause the following semester gonna be more tension..because im rushing to graduate and apply for working holiday, thats my plan for now..the only thing that can cure my problem is to be more hardworking, no last minute work and no skipping class..lolz..but every end of semester im telling myself like that, beginning of new sem will be so "semangat" to implement it and my energy will be fading day by day..and i will be back to normal again xD

like what my friends told me..when we get older, we tend to think more and more..when we were kidz..we knew our duty is study..we wont bother bout other stuff but concentrate on being a good student, fulfill our duty..but when we grow older, we start to think this and that..the question that keep popping on my mind when exam week is why are we studying for?well..for me is to gain knowledge..but...the things we study is just for the 2 hours exam..how many of us still remember what we learn in first semester? i bet none of us remember it..so we prepare so hard for 2 weeks, in order to sit for the two hours paper..im starting to question..is that really important?is that really worthy to trade off my time for just sitting and putting the information in my short term memory for just 2 hours exam and cant even recall a single thing after the paper done? lolz..im thinking too much again xD

anyway, lets talk about life after exam =P...

Date: Wednesday, 15 October 2008
Venue: La Carretas, Taipan
Food: Mexican food
Friends: Victor Kee

the menu

the place

appetizer

margarita

victor with his starving face on the main course xD

the best brownies in the town

Date: Thursday, 16 October 2008
Venue: Sushi King, Jusco Equine Park
Food: Japanese Sushi, RM2 Bonanza
Friends: Shining, Nicole Lee, Victor Kee

sushi king
victor with his achievement xD
our achievement xD

Date: Friday, 17 October 2008
Venue: izzi, Bkt Bintang
Food: Italian and Asian Cuisine
Friends: Shooting, Sin Yen, Emily Chua, Nicole Lee, Shining, Daniel Mochache, Shu Hui

menu
daniel and me
daniel with his beef and izzi pizza

fettucinni con funghi

Prawn Linguine with Garlic and Red chilli

spaghetti bolognese

spaghetti carbonara

apple strudel

tiramisu

the crews

Date: Friday, 17 October 2008
Venue: Passion Lounge, KL
Food: Drinks
Friends: Shooting, Sin Yen, Emily Chua, Nicole Lee, Shining, Daniel Mochache, Shu Hui, Sutesh, Lawrence, Ruex, Albert and friends

two botols of gins that cause us nearly RM500

Date: Saturday, 18 October 2008
Venue: Marche, The Curve
Food: Swiss food, fresh market food
Friends: Emily Chua, Nicole Lee

M.E.N

Marche

fresh fruits at juice counterfresh vege at the salad counter

our saladour mushroom soupmy carbonaranicole's seafood platter

emily's Hawaiians pizza

chocolate cake

ceramel

our achievement xD

Date: Monday, 20 October 2008
Venue: Green Box, Jusco Bukit Tinggi
Food: Tidbits and Free Flow Drinks
Friend/Family: Ricson Chong

home cook breakfast by Molly xD

our room - so halloween feel
us with the ghost singing

*well, still the 3 Fs rules: Food, Friends, and Foto...you will surely have FUN =)*

Happy Birthday sweetie pies

2008-09-22T02:49:00.024+08:00

we just celebrated Emily and Seening birthday =)
its really fun to have friends around, do crazy stuff 2getha, talking, laughing...
There is always fun moment when u hav 3 F: Food, Friends, and Foto =P
here's some photos we snap there=)

~FOOD~

tweeking, molly, boonwah, and seening (from left to right)

ready for dinner?say cheese first=P

yao, chiann, molly and xiaoyun

M.E.N

Molly, Nicole, xiaoyun, CJ BACHELORETTESmy sister tweeking =P

senget photo =P

Italiannies

~FRIENDS~

chiann's emo photo

boon wah, my photogenic model =P

yummy pudding

~FOTOs~

and Lastly~HAPPY BIRTHDAY my sweetie pies =)

Neyo - Miss Independent

2008-07-21T02:08:00.000+08:00

The latest single by Ne-Yo..lolz...ya..its my blogger name~miss independent....

[Verse 1]

There's something about,
Just something about the way she looks,
I can't figure it out,
There's something about her,
Ooooh There's something about,
Got me that wants you,
But don't need you,
I can't figure it out,
There's something about her,

[Pre-Chorus]

Cuz she walks like the boss,
Talks like the boss,
Manicure nails and set the pedicure off,
She's fly effortlessly,
She moves like the boss,
Do what she want,
Ooooh she's got me thinking about getting involved,
That's the kind of girl I need,

[Chorus]

She's got her own thing,
That's why I love her,
Miss independent,
Won't you come and spend a little time,
She's got her own thing,
That's why I love her,
Miss independent,
Ooooh the way you shine,
Miss independent,

[Verse 2]

Ooooh there's something about,
Got a woman that can do for herself,
I look at her and it makes me proud,
There's something about her,
Something oh so sexy about,
Got a woman that don't even need my help,
She said she got it she got it,
(she got it she got it)
Something about her,

[Pre-Chorus]

Cuz she works like the boss,
Plays like the boss,
Car and the crib she bout to pay them both off,
And bills she pay on time,
She's made for a boss,
Only a boss,
Everything else she's telling them to get lost,
That's the girl that's on my mind,

[Chorus]

She's got her own thing,
That's why I love her,
Miss independent,
Won't you come and spend a little time,
She's got her own thing,
That's why I love her,
Miss independent,
Ooooh the way you shine,
Miss independent,

[Verse 3]

Everything she say,
Don't worry I got it,
And everything she got,
Best believe she bought it,
She's gon' steal my heart no doubt about it,
You're everything I need,
Said you're everything I need,

[Chorus]

She's got her own thing,
That's why I love her,
Miss independent,
Won't you come and spend a little time,
She's got her own thing,
That's why I love her,
Miss independent,
Ooooh the way you shine,
Miss independent,

Miss independent,
That's why I love her,

my comfort zone

2008-07-15T03:20:00.004+08:00

after all i have been through,
i develop myself a comfort zone,
where i keep my heart inside and no one can reach it,
i know i wouldn't feel hurt
the same four walls and busywork are really more like jail,
i long so much to do the things i've never done before,
but stay inside my comfort zone and pace the same old floor,
because i know i will b safe here.

i said it didn't matter that i wasn't doing much.
i said i didn't care for things like love and such.
i claimed to be so busy with the things inside the zone,
but deep inside i long for something special of my own.

i couldn't let my life go by just watching others win.
but i'm afraid.
i'm not ready yet to receive what is happening outside this zone.
im afraid is another empty hope that smash me into pieces.
for now, i still prefer my comfort zone,
a place that i know i will never fail.

Penang Trip

2008-06-12T23:09:00.024+08:00

Finally i step into the land of Penang - the last state that i haven't went in Peninsula Malaysia.
We take bus from Puduraya on Monday evening(9th June), reach Kulim around night time. We stay one night at SeeNing's house at Kulim, Kedah. She is our tour guide and host for this trip.hehe..Thanks to her, we have a nice place to stay for the first night.We went to eat one of the famous "cha kuay teow" at Bukit Mertajam there.This "cha kuay teow" is special in the material they used. They used Duck egg instead of Chicken egg and charcoal instead of normal gas fire to cook this dishes. Then after supper, here a surprise for me ~ Birthday Cake,hahahaha..Thanks gals!and guess what they bought for me? ~ Swimming Suit and Swimming Set =.= well,now i have no reason to give myself not to learn swimming xD

Molly's Birthday Cake

Next morning(10th June), we went to St.Ann Church at Bukit Mertajam. Well, i never see such a big church before. The Church looks very European style. Around the church there are so many statue showing the story of Jesus, and Cross. After that, we went into the island of Penang. So nice to cross the Bridge of Penang. We went to Fort Cornwallis first. The view from the light tower is so nice. We went to our hotel for check in and we get lost in the town of Penang. haha. luckily we still managed to find it. We stay at Continental Hotel. Well, i doesnt really satisfied with the hotel.The service was very bad and the toilet looks very horrible(i even ask SinYen to teman me bathxD)hahaha. After that, we went to Batu Ferringhi. Compare to Teluk Batik at Perak, This beach is worse off. But it still a nice place for us to take photos=P Last destination of our day, we went to Gurney Plaza and Gurney Drive for our dinner. There's a lot of nice foods at Gurney Drive there, especially the Rojak ..we even went back to eat again the next day.

St.Ann Church

Field of St.Ann Churchmy hot chicks xD

Light tower view

Fort CornwallisBatu Ferringhi ~ Nicole Molly's eye with EmilySunset at Batu Ferringhi
Molly at Gurney WalkCute Rojak Man at Gurney Drive

The next day, we went to Penang Hill. At there, we try Canopy Walk after a 1.6km walk from the Station Cable Car. We went to Jalan Air Itam there for our so call Lunch at 3pm something xD..We went to Kek Lok Si temple and went to Penang Road for Chendol after that..compare to Melaka Chendol, i prefer the later one..Penang Chendol is too salty for me..nite timewe went to Jalan Burma for dinner and Gurney Drive for our dessert time =P For night time entertainment, we went to some clubs infront of our hotel, which i don't remember the name..i only got one word to describe those clubs here - "WAU!"..there are girls standing at the table dancing there to entertain the guests..Gosh!..there's a dancing competition there, those girls even pour ice and water on their body..lolz

Penang View from Bukit BenderaMolly at Penang Hill

Canopy Walk

Here come the last day of our yum yum sek sek trip..well,Penang doesn't really leave a good impression for me. The food no doubt are really nice, but the people i have met in this trip make me sick..anyway, having a vacation with ur best buddy are always the best moment even the place are sucks=P..Gals!im looking forward for the next trip=)

Penang from Ferry View

Hapi Bday to Me

2008-06-09T01:09:00.009+08:00

Yeah!finally i turn 20s=P

well,no bday cake from my family this year..cause they said i spending too much this few weeks>.< ...anyway..thanks for all those wishes and gift by my friends and family..u guys rox!oh ya..i bough the vincci heels,white tshirt, blue singlet, jeans and brasxD with my bday angpau money..thanks to granny,granpa,daddy,mummy and aunt mobil

thanks to my best fren, sinying and her boyfriend, zhong ye with the little white bear with a shit on its headxD

finalli thx to auntie ping for the iPod shuffle
and u knw wht the biggest gift this year~God definitely can make tis dream come true..hopefully my result won't dissapointed me tomorrow=P

HaPPy BiRthDaY to Johnny Depp, Ah Bao And Finally to youuu~MOLLY

Happy bday to Ricson

2008-05-16T00:10:00.008+08:00

17 years ago, this married couple "accidentally" have this baby..well,they just planned to have a boy and a gal..but,God add for them a precious little gift...

Well,i know this boy since he was born into this world..he is my roomate,my best friend,my football partner and everything....we even bath together when we are smallXD..i love him very very much(although i always bully him till the max)

we both are the most horrible creature in the world..since small,we do a lots of notty dirty stuff...from playing with grasshoppers to cycling, from masak masak to video game...we nearly do everything together...

i remembered when i was really down that time..he cried with me together..when im crazy that time,he crazy 2getha with me(although sometime he can be super annoying distracting my work)..

guess i should stop recalling back my memories with him,it makes me miss him so much nowXD(although he only 20km++ from here)..it makes me feel so blessed having him in my life..he is really a surprising little gift that god give to our family....

HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my little Brother~Ricson Chong Lik Xin.....we love you..

gemini woman

2008-05-14T21:33:00.003+08:00

雙子星座的女人

田希仁

雙子座女人像一個萬花筒，一會兒變一個花樣，你似乎永遠弄不清她真正的形狀。有人說一個女人欣賞或吸引的男人，總會有一定的典型。但對於雙子座的女子來說可就不一定了。由於她雙重，甚至多重的個性，她所欣賞的、吸引的男性，可就是各種類型都有了！

這麼聽起來，你的處境好像有點四面楚歌的樣子！不過你應該能夠了解，其他的男人也跟你一樣很難抵抗她的魅力。憑良心說，雙子座的女子實在很有趣，她可以像個小男生一樣，陪你上山下海的瘋狂玩樂；也可以正經八佰的跟你聊天文地理！當然，她更會像個小公主一樣跟你花前月下溫柔纏綿。她是那麼的充滿著樂趣和變化！只可惜她你的態度，也是變化多端，難以捉摸。你以乎很難理解，為什麼昨天才令她痴迷的優點，今天竟成了被她嗤之以鼻的缺點。先不要傷心，也不要生氣！你應該先冷靜下來，認真的了解一下這個讓你開心又叫好你煩心的小精靈。

雙子座的女子有著豐富無比的想像力，而在現實的生活中，愛情似乎是讓她發揮想像力的最佳園地，她幾乎可以在每一個愛情故事中，成功的扮演著不同的角色。因此很多人批評雙子座的女子把愛情當成遊戲。對於一些年紀很輕的雙子座女孩來說，遊戲的成分多少是有那麼一些的，但是請你務必相信，在每一個雙子座女子的心裡，都有著對於愛情天長地久的渴望。但是她們的多重個性，總是讓她在欣賞你某些優點的同時，又在挑剔你可能有的缺點。比方說，她很可能在讚美你的藝術天份的同時，又批抨你太過軟弱！這樣反覆的情緒下，最困擾的人並不是你，而是她自己。因為雙子座的女子通常都會獨自處理自己的心情，你頂多只會覺得她忽冷忽熱而已。

我有位雙子座的好友，她的戀愛史也是多采多姿。但是每當她開始一段感情的時侯，我總是相信這一次她是終於找到白頭偕老的對象了。因為，她是那麼的喜悅，喋喋不休的對我說對方的好處，滿臉幸褔的模樣，讓我猜想，大概不出兩個月就可以收到她的喜帖了。結果，大概兩個星期之後。她就會非常沮的數落著對方的錯（有的也並不是錯，而是與她種種的不適合）。而當她發現了這些問題之後，就漸漸和對方疏遠了，我真的很替她難過，看著她的愛情一次次的破滅。雖然過不了太久，又可以聽到她生趣盎然的談著她的新戀情，但是，我真的相信，每當愛情開始的時侯，她是真的有著天長地久的誠意的。雙子座女子的確對於學習適應對方的一切比較缺乏耐性，但是隨著年齡的增長，她會慢慢學著收斂自己善變的個性，而將它轉變成單調生活中，求新、求變的力量。

聽到這樣的結論，你應該覺得前途大有可為了吧！不過，你除了需要多一點耐心之外，我仍然要提醒你——跟一個雙子星的女子相處，唯一避免自己受傷，又能與她相處融洽的方式，就是自己不斷的變。多變的生活和氣氛會讓她生趣盎然，更會保持她對你的熱愛。你可以儘情的發揮自己多樣的才華，不必擔心她會無法適應，雙子座的女子不會是個黏人的橡皮糖。不過，不要冷落她太久，寂寞的等待，不是個雙子座女子容易忍受的事，否則，她忘記你的速度，肯定會讓你心碎。

我剛才說過了，雙子座女性的善變會隨著年齡的成長日趨穩定。尤其是當她答應與你攜手共度此生之後，聰明的她，會很理性的要求自己做一個稱職的妻子。你應該相信她的反應靈活，適應性絕佳，辦事效率極高，扮演妻子的角色是難不倒她的。除非你非要嚴格地要求她作個傳統的家庭主婦。否則你一定會慶幸自己娶了個可愛又多變的嬌妻。

你不會有一個整天板著臉，抱怨家用錢不夠的黃臉婆。相反地，當你煩惱錢賺得太少的時侯，她可能會幫你想一大堆賺外快的點子。你可能那天下班回家的時侯，發現她把家裡所有的家俱都重新安置的煥然一新。也可能打開門之後發現她一個人沮喪的躲在牆角，渴望你給她一個浪漫的擁抱。當你們邀請朋友到家裡作客的時侯，她總會成為一個俐落又大方的女主人，給大家製造愉快的氣氛。你不要太限制她的自由，當然她也不會過分的限制你。不要在她興緻沖沖告訴你她的新計劃時，表現得漠不關心。她可能今天滿臉甜蜜的告訴你，她覺得自己是全世界最幸褔的小女人，明天又憂傷的告訴你，她很擔心你們之間愛的感覺已經不再了。這時侯，你需要的是一點幽默感。你不妨跟她說：「真的嗎？那真是太糟糕了，妳是不是能給我一個機會，讓我再追你一次呢？」俏皮而機智的言語，是永遠討雙子座女子喜歡的，她本身就是一個極具表達愛情技巧的精靈，若是碰上了一塊木頭，豈不是太掃興了嗎？

請你記得，時時牽牢她的手，隨著她變化的節奏，你會發現，生活就是一個萬花筒，五彩繽紛，刺激有趣。

雙子座的女人與「性」

雙子座的女子對性愛的本身有些好奇，由於她活潑多變的個性，她往往可以把性愛的場面烘托出愉快有趣的氣氛。機智的言語能讓對方覺得快樂而充滿自信。然事實上，雙子座的女人通常都不是肉慾主導的，她們很難全然的沉浸在肉體的歡愉之中。這一點，對她們本身來說，是一件挺掃興的事，如何在性愛中擺脫自己冷靜的頭腦，往往會是她們的困擾。

雙子座的女人與十二個星座的男人

1. 牡羊座：他熱情讓妳覺得刺激有趣，而妳的甜言蜜語總是讓他快樂的沾沾自喜。至於長期相處，你們彼此或許得再培養一點耐性。

2. 金牛座：他是穩如泰山，而妳卻像一陣風，個性上南轅北轍。剛開始的時侯，或許會引起妳的好奇。

3. 雙子座：甚稱世界魔術大觀，變、變、變，看誰技高一籌，這是刺激有趣的組合。

4. 巨蟹座：妳的忽冷忽熱，可能讓他陷人沮喪的深淵。妳雖欣賞他種種優點，但這樣的愛情會給妳沉重的負擔。

5. 獅子座：妳喜歡他戀愛的方式，他欣賞妳的機智可愛，你們很快就能親蜜起來，但真的談起戀愛，妳會有些害怕他國王的霸道作風。

6. 處女座：同樣在水星守護下的你們，有著原始的引力，尤其他知性的頭腦，很容易令妳激賞，不過時日一久，妳或許會嫌他有嘮叨瑣碎。

7. 天秤座：同屬風向的你們，很容易成為彼此了解的朋友，正因如此，談起戀愛的時侯，反而對對方有一點不放心了。

8. 天蠍座：天蠍座強烈的個性原本就不是很吸引妳的，因此你們似乎很難拉近彼此的距離。

9. 射手座：雖只有著不同的屬向，但你們是非常容易互相吸引的，往往成為興趣相投的愛侶。

10. 摩羯座：對妳來說，他很像是教官、老師一樣的男人，不容易引起妳「愛」的感覺。

11. 水瓶座：跟他相處妳會覺得十分自在，但有時侯又覺得他似乎總是熱度不太夠。

12. 雙魚座：妳的性格多變，他的情緒多變，如果你們都能接受方「變」的本質，或許還有可為。

爱情里的智慧女人

2008-05-05T05:07:00.001+08:00

我们在追求爱情的岁月里，终于发现，爱情不是两个人或者三个人的事，而是一个人的事。爱情，是自身的圆满。当你了解爱情，你也了解了人生。——张小娴

　　女人主动，男人你心动吗？面对这个问题，男人会说：“当然，只要我也喜欢她。”其实，问题就出在这个我也喜欢她。男人和女人是两种不同的动物，男人需要征服女人，女人需要的却是安全感。当男人发现适合自己的目标，肯定会先动手，而迟迟未动手，那么目标的吸引力首先是值得怀疑的。

　　记得有人说过，在爱情问题上谁先动手，谁就满盘皆输。我们的生活经验决定了男人向女人示爱是常理，一旦违背就会有麻烦接踵而至。女人爱一个男人的终极目标是获得安全感，如果主动示爱，就会对自己缺乏信心，所以女人主动的爱情往往以失败告终。

　　一个有智慧的女人，应该知道打破旧有的观念需要代价，而自己未必有能力承受。智慧女人是想办法让对方开口，给一个人三次机会，约他吃一次饭，看一场电影，参加一次朋友聚会。如果他依然没有任何反应，那么一定要放弃。给一个人三次机会已经很奢侈了，最愚蠢的人是爱一个不爱自己的人。

　　智慧和愚蠢的区别有时候，只是因为一个女人告诉那个男人：我爱你！而另外一个女人没有告诉那个男人：我爱你！虽然结果可能是一样的，但是心理的感受却完全不同。智慧的女人会选择让自己快乐，就像一部电影里的台词说的“要想不被别人拒绝，最好的办法是先拒绝别人”。

　　其实在爱情问题上男人比女人更清醒，他们会把感情问题放在合理的位置；而女人很容易把感情当成生活的全部。当爱情快车出了故障，到了两个人不得不分手的时候，不理性的往往是女人。

　　任何人在做决定之前都会有一些信号，如果你的男朋友开始故意用一些语言刺伤你，开始没有耐心听你的电话，而解释的理由明显带有敷衍了事的痕迹。那么，智慧的女人要相信自己的直觉，自己先开口，就可以把被动变成主动。不要担心男人会不好意思承认，只要你别把自己的行动表现得太悲壮。当你说的话正好说中他的心事，一般情况是他无言以对。

　　虽然女人经常说自己把谁甩了，但这可能只是她在心里埋藏了很久的愿望。现实情况是如果没有合适的新人，多数是女人用行动把男人逼迫得不得不开口。于是，很多女人会在男人提出分手以后，不停地打电话，越打电话越觉得对方的冷漠没有道理。女人的想法是：即使要分手也得我先说。

　　新浪网上有一个故事的结尾说：当被爱成为一种习惯，请把最后的骄傲留给我。这是一个智慧的选择，很多事情不是靠努力就可以改变的，与其努力挽回已经逝去的爱情，不如努力让自己面对现实。

　　无论是自己已经在心里做了决定，却让别人先说了，还是确实没有预料到爱情的突变，事情已经走到这一步。走得漂亮一点，那么你不能挽回一个男人的心，却可以挽回自己的尊严。

　　

张小娴说，一个女人在和男人同住那一刻开始，就要留一只手挽皮箱，让他知道自己随时可以潇洒的离开。一个女人挽着一只皮箱，昂首阔步，头也不回，这个落寞的情景，是女人最后的尊严。

Rejection

2008-05-02T14:53:00.004+08:00

When you get dumped, fired or denied,
it feels like you're the only one
person on earth to feel the sting of
rejection. But being rejected is one
of the most universal experiences in
life. Even people who seem to have it
all have felt the pain of not getting
what they want. But happy, healthy
people learn to take rejection in
stride and bounce back better than
ever. Here are our top tips for
dealing with rejection.

It's not always about you
No matter how hard you try to squash
your insecurities, rejection seems to
bring them back stronger than ever. He
doesn't want to settle down because
you're not good enough. They didn't
give you the job because you're too
dumb. He didn't ask you out because
you're not pretty enough.

The truth is, rejection isn't always
about you - it's often about the other
person. If he doesn't want to settle
down, it's not because you aren't good
enough - it's because of his own
issues with commitment. If they didn't
give you the job, it's not because you
aren't smart enough - it's because
they were looking for something else.
If he didn't ask you out, it's not
because you're ugly - it's because he
didn't feel interested in you. At the
end of the day, people almost always
act out of their own interest, not
because they are reacting to you. Keep
that in mind and you'll be less hurt -
and more likely to move on to more
pursue a better match.

…But sometimes it is
Of course, there are times when being
rejected is about you. Maybe you said
something inappropriate that turned
him off. Or you made a mistake in the
job interview. Or you demanded too
much commitment, too soon and ended up
pushing him away.

If you did something foolish, take
responsibility for it, apologize if
possible, and then let it go. If
you're able to make amends and move
forward, so bet it. But if not, chock
the experience up to a very human
mistake and move on.

And if you find yourself being
rejected for the same mistakes over
and over again, it's time to pay
attention -- you may have created a
destructive pattern that's keeping you
from getting what you want. Instead of
just being defensive about being
rejected, listen to what's being said.
Whether you're being rejected by a
prospective employer or a would-be
lover, chances are you can use learn
from the experience and improve your
chances the next time around.

Be thankful
The next time you get rejected (and
yes, it's inevitable) try to keep
things in perspective. If a man's not
interested in you, are you really that
interested in him? If a company
doesn't think you're a good fit, do
you really want to work there?

Rejection is life's way of making sure
the right connections are made -- and
the wrong ones are avoided. So instead
of being resentful over rejection, be
thankful. Even though the rejection
may have hurt you, in the end, it will
free you to make a connection you'll
end up loving a lot more.

Someone once said, "Keep in mind that letting go isn't the end of the world; it's the beginning of a new life."

Hapi Birthday Roomie!

2008-04-22T03:03:00.009+08:00

21st April..is jz an ordinary day,but there's a special girl in my life born on this day XD
she come into my life on the Feb of 2006..an evening outside the balcony eating bread..lolz..here's start our relationship at emerald park..

~we look so innocent tht time..lolz~

a girl that always cheerful,always supportive, being by my side no matter what happen..listen to my mumble whenever i get hurt..have fun with me..shop v me..clubbing v me..fight v me..watching ANTM v me.....sleep v me..get notty v me..cut hair v me..

~what a classic look!~
~we look like samseng tht time XD~

~finally a more feminine look of me and her~
~orange look..lolz~
~in the fitting room look~~prom nite look~

she is nothing but NICOLE LEE..my lovely roomie..HAPPY 20th Birthday to you gal!we love you=)

Hapi Bday BITCH!!aha..dun "f*ck" me for posting those photos ya!

Enchanted night

2008-04-22T02:41:00.008+08:00

Finally is the NIGHT!that make me suffer for the whole month..lolz...
we went for this prom night organize by EngSoc and Swimming Club..i hav a prom date tht night,which is my coursemate,Timothy..thanks for accompany me dude..although u look extra tired tht night..

~beautiful light~
~my prom date,Timothy~
~gals~

So,we r damn crazy..we started to prepare evything from 2pm(the event is at 7pm)..lolz..because we jz hv 1 make up and hairstylist~Nicole..thx for her wonderful hands that make us look so pretty tht nite=)

~nicole and me~

the night was quite disappointing actuali..i expected the food wil b nice..bt end up is nt worth for RM92 somehow..bt the performance,environment and service are reali wht we shuld gv applause to=)

~EeShan,EeXing,Molly,SinYen~

a night tht hav a lot of sweet memory..thanks to all my frends=)to those who r graduating soon,All The Best for your future..

~Finally thanks for my sisters for borrowing those wonderful dresses and shoes~

Hapi Birthday Granny!

2008-04-22T02:16:00.013+08:00

oh ya..is my grandmother birthday..we went back to gombak to celebrate her bday..is a nice day cause is been a long time we didnt gather together..i din njoy much bcz of d soya i drank..make my stomach so painful throughout the party..gosh!i'll never drink soya anymore if there is buffet dinner..
dun1 talk so much XD..here's some photos tht nite,

~The soya that make me stomach pain~
~she is the cutest creature i have ever seenXD~
~my "bao bei" yong han,as notty as always~
~he is pregnant for the whole of his life XD~
~my mummy and auntie, act cute with the age of 50s~
~all aunties and uncles,except the baby XD~
~grandchildren~
~Birthday cake~
~the birthday lady,Granny~
~our present for her(add more to my bankruptcy)~

do not run!

2008-04-17T21:09:00.005+08:00

i am a girl that like to do things fast...i have a dad and mum that do things so fast and expect us to be the same as them..i am used to be like that..but until today,i realize that life is not a race,i don't have to rush in everything..especially love..which i ruin it maybe because its just too fast for everyone to react..start from now, i will stop taking any "transportation" but to walk with my "feet" throughout this journey=)

do not run through life,
so fast that you forget,
not only where you have been,
but also where you are going.
Life is not a race,
but a journey to be savored,
each step of the way.

~miss independent~

love is a game

2008-04-16T13:54:00.005+08:00

If love isn't a game, why are there so many players?

this is a quote i seen in somewhere which i couldn't remember..ya..love is a game, a game that full with different kind of players..i admit myself as a player too..i play around and at the end get foolish by this game..i though i can control myself from falling again,but i fail..i though im afraid of this game already but still i put my leg on it..i never know how to spell the word SCARED

what the hell im craping here?ya..i being moody again..is hurtful to like someone but that person doesn't like you,isn't it?A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you...again..i open myself too fast..im speeding everything hoping a guy can appreciate a gal that open minded and speak out what she feel..but men are always men..they want competition..they want to get those gals that so hard to get..being easy to get is what they called cheap and not challenging..

oh ya..u know what,i just like myself as straight forward and open minded..so what?..i know one day there is someone that going to appreciate my character..hopefully

Love is a Game,play it well my friends!

How are you playing it?

2008-04-01T13:27:00.002+08:00

Life is a game of cards..
You did not invent the game..
Nor did you frame the rules..
You have no control over the cards dealt to you..
But you are there to play..
A good player, even with a bad hand of cards,
will play well and emerge a winner..
A bad player, even with the best of cards,
will play badly and lose.

So, how are you playing it my friends?

~pravsworld.com~

malacca trip

2008-03-16T23:46:00.013+08:00

so..mid trimester break just started..i went to a trip at Malacca with my hommies to visit some old friends and hang around there..basically the whole trip is just eating and eating..lolz..we ate a lots of foods there, for example,chicken rice ball, satay celup, nyonya laksa & rendang, jonkers' sushi, chendol, and fried egg oyster..
there a very complicated feeling when i step back to this place,where all my happy moments laid here..nothing really changed there(just some new building in the town)..i do missed everything there..but i have a new life here in cyber,so instead of looking back to some past memories,i rather appreciate every moments here^.^
so..after some relaxing moments,time to get back to study although is BREAK now...there is 2 midterm straight away after holiday,and damn lot of assignment deadline is near..haih....anyway,happy holiday to everyone=)

~Day 1~

satay celup with old buddies at malacca campus

me and my ex housemate,Amy

Jonker's with my brother,Ricson

~Day 2~

chicken rice balls at Jonkers

infront of christ church melaka

red staircase

infront of A'Famosa with iguana

St.Paul hill

St.Paul church with my brothers

oh ya,last but not least,here i present my new look after a haircut from thomas&guys(they were here in campus for charity purpose)..and i look so funny+.+

dumb ass look>.<

~miss independent~

count your blessing

2008-03-08T01:31:00.006+08:00

read this wonderful email that my friend had send me,awesome message that brough from it..

WHAT HAPPENS IN HEAVEN

I dreamt that I went to Heaven and an angel was showing me around.We walked side-by-side inside a large workroom filled with angels.

My angel guide stopped in front of the first section and said, "This is the Receiving Section. Here, all petitions to God said in prayer are received."

I looked around in this area, and it was terribly busy with so many angels sorting out petitions written on voluminous paper sheets and scraps from people all over the world. Then we moved on down a long corridor until we reached the second section.

The angel then said to me, "This is the Packaging and Delivery Section. Here, the graces and blessings the people asked for are processed and delivered to the living persons who asked for them."

I noticed again how busy it was there. There were many angels working hard at that station, since so many blessings had been requested and were being packaged for delivery to Earth. Finally at the farthest end of the long corridor we stopped at thedoor of a very small station. To my great surprise, only one angel was seated there, idly doing nothing.

"This is the Aknowledgment Section," my angel friend quietly admitted to me. He seemed embarrassed

"How is it that there is no work going on here?" I asked.

"So sad," the angel sighed.

"After people receive the blessings that they askedfor, very few send back acknowledgments ." "How does one acknowledge God's blessings?" I asked.

"Simple," the angel answered.

Just say, "Thank you, Lord."

"What blessings should they acknowledge?" I asked.

"If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep you are richer than 75% of this world. If you have money in the bank, in your wallet, and spare change in a dish, you are among the top 8% of the world's wealthy ."

"And if you get this on your own computer, you are part of the 1% in the world who has that opportunity."

Also ..... " If you woke up this morning with more health than illness ... you are more blessed than the many who will not even survive this day ."

"If you have never experienced the fear in battle, the loneliness of imprisonment, the agony of torture, or the pangs of starvation ... you are ahead of 700 million people in the world."

"If you can attend a church without the fear of harassment, arrest, torture or death you are envied by, and more blessed than, three billion people in the world ."

"If your parents are still alive and still married ...you are very rare ."

"If you can hold your head up and smile, you are not the norm, you're unique to all those in doubt and despair."

Ok, what now? How can I start? If you can read this message, you just received a double blessing in that someone was thinking of you as very special and you are more blessed than over two billion people in the world who cannot read at all.

Have a good day, count your blessings, and if you want, pass this along to remind everyone else how blessed we all are.

A TTN: Acknowledge Dept.: "Thank you Lord, for giving me the ability to share this message and for giving me so many wonderful people to share it with."

2008-01-15T22:15:00.000+08:00

You don't actually have to take the quiz. Just read straight through, and you'll get the point, an awesome one. .....

Take this quiz: 1. Name the five wealthiest people in the world. 2. Name the last five Heisman trophy winners. 3. Name the last five winners of the Miss America contest. 4. Name ten people who have won the Nobel or Pulitzer Prize. 5. Name the last half dozen Academy Award winners for best actor actress. 6. Name the last decade's worth of World Series winners. How did you do? The point is, none of us remember the headliners of yesterday. These are no second-rate achievers. They are the best in their fields. But the applause dies. Awards tarnish. Achievements are forgotten. Accolades and certificates are buried with their owners.

Here's another quiz. See how you do on this one: 1. List a few teachers who aided your journey through school. 2. Name three friends who have helped you through a difficult time. 3. Name five people who have taught you something worthwhile. 4. Think of a few people who have made you feel, appreciated and special. 5. Think of five people you enjoy spending time with. 6. Name half a dozen heroes whose stories have inspired you. Easier?

The lesson: The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards. They are the ones that care.

2007-12-19T22:51:00.000+08:00

You Must Let It Go

You cannot erase the past;
you must let it go.
You cannot change yesterday;
you must accept the lesson learned.
You cannot stop time
or stand still in a world
racing around in circles;
you must dance with the wind
and sing with the songs
that are playing.
Let whatever mistakes you have made
remain in the shadows
of times gone by,
and let love be the answer
to the mysteries in life.

Keep looking...
for the peacefulness
you are searching for
Keep believing...
in the contentment
you talk so endlessly about
Keep trying...
to be all that you are.

Remember...
the magic in life ends
whenever you decide
you have everything.

~Is it Time to Make a CHANGE?~
~Molicious~

2007-12-17T01:44:00.000+08:00

Visit http://www.freerice.com/

“People from all walks of life and from around the globe have written in to express their appreciation for the game . . . Secretaries admit to playing it during boring business meetings.”

- Christian Science Monitor

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- UN World Food Program

2007-11-29T22:51:00.001+08:00

No Pain No Gain… Accept the Pain, Future will be Fruitful…
Don't feel the work you are doing is pain, because there will be always a reason for that pain or work.
So face the pain, for the pain you face, there will be definitely happiness a head.

2007-11-21T02:24:00.000+08:00

What is Love?

Basic Components of Love
What do you feel when you love someone? If distilled down to it’s core components, what would those be? Yes, love is an emotion, a feeling, a wanting, and a “being”...

Love is Accepting.

Acceptance is labeling someone as "okay" and having no particular desire to change them. Who they are is perfectly fine with you. You pose no condition on whether you will love them or not. This is call unconditional love. When your love IS conditional, the moment they step outside your set of conditions, love decrease.

Love is Appreciating.

Appreciation is one step beyond acceptance. Its when your focus is on what you like about another. We look at them and feel this sweeping appreciation for who they are, their joy, their insights, their humor, their companionship, etc. When someone says they are "in love" with another, they mean their appreciation is so enormous for this person that it consumes their every thought.

Love is Wanting Another to Feel Good.

We want those we love to be happy, safe, healthy, and fulfilled. We want them to feel good in all ways, physically, mentally and emotionally.

Most of you have flown on an airplane. Have you ever wondered why they tell you to put your OWN mask on first, before you help your child? Seems kinda selfish, doesn’t it? I mean, we’ve been taught that the ultimate in love is self sacrifice, right? Why do these airlines tell us to save ourselves first?!? There’s a practical reason they instruct you to do this. Think about it. How can you help someone when you’re unconscious or struggling for breath?

Love is similar to that air mask. You can’t fully love another unless you love yourself FIRST. Strap that air mask on good and tight, and you can love an endless amount. If you don’t love yourself first, you have no love to give. If you truly put yourself first in love, nurture yourself, honor what you want, and make YOUR happiness the number one priority, you are better equipped to love others. Love deeper. We love others to the degree we love ourselves..

2007-11-11T13:51:00.000+08:00

少敲了门一下

他们曾经是一对恋人，后来因为一件小事闹翻了，从此天各一方，各自走过了一条坎坷的人生旅途。一段美好的恋情就此画上了句点。十年后，似乎是命运的捉弄，他们有相遇了。

他问她：“那天晚上我来敲你的门，你为什么不开门？”

她说：“我一直在门后等你。”

“妳一直在门后？为什么不开？”

“我想等你敲第10下才开门 - 可你之敲了9下。”

她后悔自己过于执着，她完全可以在他敲第9下的时候把门打开，或者在他离去时把他叫回来，这样她已经很有面子了。为什么非要坚持等那第10下不可呢？”

他呢,十年之后如梦初醒：原来她并没有真的生气，一直在等他敲到第10下，他为什么不连续敲下去呢?只要多敲一下，一切就会完全不一样！

心灵感悟：
如果是真爱，就不要把爱情这扇门关死，把门虚掩着，给对方进去的机会，也给自己出来的机会，毕竟真爱是难得的。

2007-11-09T00:06:00.000+08:00

学会放手
一天早上，爸爸听到四岁的小女儿的啼哭声，他赶到小女儿旁边，女儿正坐在沙发上。他的手插进了放在茶几上的花瓶里。花瓶上细下粗，所以他的手伸了进去，但抽不出来。爸爸用了各种办法，想把卡着了的手拿出来，但都不奏效。

爸爸着急万分，他不敢用力，用力一点，女儿就痛得叫苦连天。情急之下，爸爸想出了一个策略，就是把花瓶打碎，只有这样才能把女儿的手抽出来。可是他有点犹豫，因为这个花瓶不是普通的花瓶，而是一件价值连城的古董。不过，为了女儿细嫩的小手，这是唯一的办法。结果，他忍痛将花瓶打破了。

虽然花瓶碎了，但是女儿的手拿出来了，爸爸觉得这是值得的。女儿的手完全没有任何皮外伤，但他的小拳头却是紧握住似得无法张开。是不是抽筋呢？爸爸又一次惊慌失措。在爸爸焦急的请救声中，女儿张开了小手，原来，他的手不是抽筋，他的拳头张不开，是因为他紧握着一枚一元硬币，他是为了拿出这硬币，才使手卡在花瓶的口内。小孩子的手伸不出来，其实，不是因为花瓶口太窄，而是因为他不肯放手。

生活中很多事情恰恰如此，我们为一件烦得不行了，其实，放手就能立刻解决问题，但我们却宁愿受着约束，也不愿解脱。放手，带来更大的释放。为了区区一元，打碎了一个古董花瓶，四岁的女而当时不会理解，也不会后悔。他不理解他执著那个硬币的代价是那么大。他长大了之后，才会了解花瓶的价值，才会明白自己昔日的愚昧。

心灵感悟：
适当的时候要学会放手，这时放手就是得到。

2007-10-08T04:34:00.000+08:00

~* Giving When it Counts*~

Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a hospital,
I got to know a little girl named Liz who was suffering from
a rare and serious disease.
Her only chance of recovery appeared to be a blood
transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had
miraculously survived the same disease and had developed the
antibodies needed to combat the illness.

The doctor explained the situation to her little brother,
and asked the little boy if he would be willing to give his
blood to his sister. I saw him hesitate for only a moment before
taking a deep breath and saying, "Yes, I'll do it if it will save
her."

As the transfusion progressed, he lay in bed next to his
sister and smiled, as we all did, seeing the color returning to her
cheek.

Then his face grew pale and his smile faded. He looked up at the
doctor and asked with a trembling voice, "Will I start to die right
away?"

Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the doctor;
he thought he was going to have to give his sister all of his blood
in order to save her. You see, after all, understanding and attitude,
are everything.

"Work like you don't need the money, love like
you've never been hurt, and dance like you do when
nobody's watching."

2007-10-03T02:29:00.000+08:00

Taste of Life

An aging Hindu master grew tired of his apprentice complaining. One
morning he sent the apprentice for some salt.

When the apprentice returned, the master instructed the unhappy young man
to put a handful of salt in a glass of water and drink it.

"How does it taste?" the master asked.

"Bitter," spit the apprentice.

The master chuckled and then asked the young man to put another handful of
salt in the lake.

The two walked to the nearby lake. After the apprentice swirled his
handful of salt into the water, the old man said, "Now drink from the lake."

As the water dripped down the young man's chin, the master asked, "How
does it taste?"

"Fresh," remarked the apprentice.

"Do you taste the salt?" asked the master.

"No," said the young man.

At this, the master sat beside the young man who so reminded him of
himself at one time and held his hands.

He told the young man, "The pain of life is pure salt; no more, no less.
The amount of pain in life remains exactly the same. However, the amount
of bitterness we taste depends on the container we put the pain in.
So when you are in pain, the only thing you can do is to enlarge your sense of things . . .
Stop being a glass. Become a lake."

2007-10-02T03:52:00.000+08:00

CHANCE...OR CHOICE?

When we meet the right person to love when we're at the right place at the
right time. That's chance. When you meet someone you're attracted to,
that's not a choice. That's chance. Being caught up in a moment (and
there's a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not
choice.
That's also a chance

The difference is what happens afterward. When will you take that
infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level?
That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you
want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.

If you decide to love a person, even with his faults, that's not a chance.
That's choice. When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's
choice. Even if you know there are many people out there who are more
attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to
love your mate just the same, that's choice.

Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. But true love that
lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make.

Regarding soulmates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so
true about this: "Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to
make it happen."

I do believe that soulmates do exist. That there is truly someone made for
you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do
something about it or not. We may meet our soulmates by chance, but loving
and staying with our soulmate is still a choice we have to make.

2007-10-01T04:03:00.000+08:00

-- 5 Reasons Why God Uses Problems --

The problems you face will either
defeat you or develop you - depending
on how you respond to them.

Unfortunately, most people fail to
see how God wants to use problems for
good in their lives. They react
foolishly and resent their problems
rather than pausing to consider what
benefit they might bring.

Here are five ways God wants to use
the problems in your life:

1.God Uses Problems To DIRECT U
Sometimes God must light a fire under
you to get you moving.
Problems often point us in a new
direction and motivate us to change.
Is God trying to get your
attention? "Sometimes it takes
a painful situation to make us change
our ways."

2. God Uses Problems To INSPECT U
People are like tea bags...if you want
to know what's inside them,just drop
them into hot ever water! Has God
tested your faith with a problem What
do problems reveal about you?
"When you have many kinds of troubles,
you should be full of joy, because you
know that these troubles test your
faith, and this will give you
patience."

3. God Uses Problems To CORRECT U
Some lessons we learn only through
pain and failure. It's likely that as
a child your parents told you not to
touch a hot stove. But you probably
learned by being burned. Sometimes we
only learn the value of something...
health, money, a relationship. ..
by losing it. "It was the best thing
that could have happened to me,
for it taught me to pay attention to
your laws."

4. God Uses Problems To PROTECT U
A problem can be a blessing in
disguise if it prevents you from
being harmed by something more
serious. Last year a friend was fired
for refusing to do something unethical
that his boss had asked him to do. His
unemployment was a problem - but
it saved him from being convicted and
sent to prison a year later when
management's actions were eventually
discovered. "You intended to harm me,
but God intended it for good...

5. God Uses Problems To PERFECT U
Problems, when responded to correctly,
are character builders.God is far more
interested in your character than your
comfort. Your relationship to God and
your character are the only two
things you're going to take with you
into eternity. "We can rejoice when we
run into problems...
they help us learn to be patient. And
patience develops strength of
character in us and helps us trust God
more each time we use it until finally
our hope and faith are strong and
steady."

Here's the point Ad:

God is at work in your life - even
when you do not recognize it or
understand it.
But it's much easier and profitable
when you cooperate with Him.

"Success can be measured not only in
achievements, but in lessons learned,
lives touched and moments shared along
the way"

2007-09-27T05:12:00.000+08:00

分手后

都市言情电视剧里经常可以看到这样一个镜头：男主人公一手拿着大衣，一手提着箱子，表情决然地要离家出走，却在门口被哭泣的女主人公从背后紧紧地抱住，眼泪将他的衬衫后背浸染得湿漉漉的，男主人公的眼里浮现出一丝的犹豫和悲悯，但最终还是头也不回地离开了，留下一个颓然的女人和她流不尽的泪水……

没有谁能做爱情永远的赢家，分手总是在爱情里有着很大的戏份。恋爱的时候有着无数次正面的拥抱，互相看着对方的眼睛分享着共同的秘密，可到了分手的时候，为什么却只有背后的拥抱，为何不再一次地看着他的眼睛，目不转睛地，直到他妥协心软？

如果这一切还不能唤起他的爱，那么，别再展示自己狼狈的坚持了，连这背后的拥抱也省却了吧，残存的余温不能挽回什么，却能强横地霸占回忆；更别说什么“没有你我活不下去”的话，事实上，谁没了谁，都能活。责任、道德、义务都是美德，可这些都不能替代爱的感觉，它们只能成为套住别人和自己的负担。有智能的女人能够在被爱时脆弱，失恋时坚强，在共处时柔弱，独处时刚硬。女人们要感谢这些伤害，那段逝去的爱情，只不过是一块砖，它能引出对自己玉一般生活的重新审视和取舍。

曾经在一本杂志上看到过“分手礼物完全手册”的小幽默：送美容健身卡——没有我的日子里，你要更加珍惜自己；送空白通讯簿——祝你找到新的朋友；送鞋子配一沓纸巾——好好哭吧，一路走好；送一首歌吧，名字叫做《相见不如怀念》……

这些有点调侃情趣的分手礼物好象是针对那些理性又不乏品位的女人而言的，那些感性而脆弱的女人呢？哭过之后，学学《乱世佳人》里的赫思嘉吧，左手握右手，告诉自己：“明天，又是新的一天！”

2007-09-21T02:32:00.000+08:00

幾米........文章:

我遇到貓在潛水，

卻沒遇到你。

我遇到狗在爬樹，

卻沒遇到你。

我遇到夏天飄雪，

卻沒遇到你。

我遇到冬天颳風，

卻沒遇到你。

我遇到豬都在結網了，

卻還是沒有遇到你。

我遇到所有的不平凡，

卻一直遇不到平凡的你。

2007-01-19T22:32:00.000+08:00

放手

我們都曾經以為有些事情是不可以放手的

我們不會放棄一個人；
我們不會離開一個人；
我們不會讓一個人離開我們；
我們不會讓那個不愛我們的人得到自由；
我們不會忘記。

是的，我們總是咬牙切齒的說：我是不會放手的！

但是，事實上並沒有什麼東西是不能放手的
時日漸遠，當你回望，突然發現曾經你以為是不可能放手的東西
竟只是生命中的一塊－－跳板。

所有的哀傷、痛楚，所有不能放棄的事情
不過是生命裡的一個過度，你跳過去就可以變得更精采。

人在跳板上，最辛苦的不是跳下來的那一刻
而是跳下來之前的那心裡掙扎、猶豫、無助和患得患失，根本無法向別人傾訴。

我們以為跳不過去了，閉上眼睛，鼓起勇氣，卻跳過了

有什麼東西是不能放手的呢？
你傾盡所能的去愛他，你以為你絕對不會放手

但是當他要走時，你又能怎麼樣？
失戀、失意，甚至失婚，以致我們在愛情理所受的苦
都不過是一塊跳板，令你成長。

我們以為愛的很深、很深，來日歲月會讓你知道，它不過很淺、很淺。
沒有伴侶的時候，即使是孤單，也可以很快樂。

誰說一個人就沒有快樂？

這個時候，孤單是一種境界
你可以走遍全世界，結識不同的朋友

只是，許多年後，你忽然發現，你寧願孤單一個人。

假如只有你一個人，你用不著再向他交代你的行蹤
你無須再逼自己和他一起成長或不成長，
你不必再聽他嘮叨，你不用再遷就他，你不用再向他說甜言蜜語。

當你為他作了這一切，你竟然感到無比的孤單。
然而，你又有太多理由不能離開他

你不忍心讓他孤單，不如你自己孤單好了。

原來，所有的責任、承諾、道德、傳統、忍耐、都是孤單的源頭。
孤單不是與生俱來的，而是由你愛上一個人的那一刻開始。

放手，不難
難的是在放手前的猶豫和掙扎

2007-01-19T22:24:00.000+08:00

把微笑留給傷你最深的人

男女之間從見面到心跳到兩情相悅，再到彼此間出神入化的心靈呼喚，也許要走很長一段路程。

而從一切也許只需短短的一瞬。

當昔日的真愛已不存在，當情感的繁花已被冬雨打得殘紅飄零時，人們總是習慣于停棲在愛情的樹枝上低吟淺唱，不是心裏仍眷戀那份柔情，

等待傷害自己的人回心轉意，就是也決心以同樣的方式實行報複。但這都是不明智、不潇灑、不可愛的，最恰當的方法就是微笑地向他道聲珍重。

把微笑給有負於我們的人，把淚水留給自己，把祝福給有負於我們的人，把痛苦留給自己，沒有較高的文化素養，沒有對情感細微的洞察，沒有對所愛之人發自內心的摯愛，誰能做到微笑告別？

把微笑留給一般的朋友不易，給有負於我們的人更是難上加難，因爲最傷害我們的人可能曾經是我們最深愛的人，付出的越多，被傷害時，心裏越疼。

然而，我們不得不微笑。

感情是件很複雜的事，我們不能勉強他人，相愛時理由有千條，不愛時，這千條理由一條也站不住腳，這其中的奧秘，有誰能說得清？

誰能說得清，愛情無解、愛情無常，只能微笑以對，何苦擾了別人，又傷了自己？

也許某一天當你醒來後，你忽然發現你的這個微笑，喚回了那位曾經的他，告訴我你此刻的心情也許這就是微笑的回報呢？！

也許某一天當你醒來後忽然發現也有這麽一個每天爲你微笑的人，那你又該如何？

愛情本無常，但它卻是美麗的，爲何我們不讓愛情繼續美麗，爲何不讓那醜陋的恨也變得美麗？

因爲相愛過，那就爲他微笑吧，把這淺淺的微笑留給那傷你最深的人…

2007-01-19T21:14:00.000+08:00

學著去接受，愛是會變

人在通過生命的急轉彎時，
必須放棄自己的一部份，讓新的東西進來……

當你心情不好的時候，為什麼不出去走一走？
也許和許多陌生人擦身而過
也許你會找一點意外的溫柔

當你心情不好的時候，為什麼不讓自己換個方式過活？
也許會聽到許多不同的聲音
也許你會得到一點意外的收穫

曾經走過的，就不必再回頭
曾經擁有的，也不必怕失落

抬頭是星光燦爛的天空
腳下是各種方向的軌道
我們只是宇宙上打轉的星球
在每個可能相遇的時刻分手
在每個可能遠離的時候回頭

當你心情不好的時候，為什麼不出去走一走？
陽光的道路會越來越溫暖
你的心情會被風吹的膨脹

當你心情不好的時候，為什麼不讓自己換個方式過活？
狹窄的空間會越來越開闊
你的心靈會得到舒展

如果世界上真的有一個地方叫做天涯海角，
那愛情的盡頭又在哪裡？
遇見他，讓我開始相信所謂的命中注定，愛上他，
我才知道真正的愛...
永遠不會消失不見。

也許不同的時間總會遇上不同的人
錯的時間總是遇上刻苦鉻心的人
交集出相見恨晚的愛情軼事..

也許不在於懸在模凝曖昧間的關係.
而是常留在心的那種回憶的甜
若說~愛是深深的喜歡
愛上妳卻是深埋心中最美的甜

一種刻骨銘心的滋味，那滋味總是讓人深深難忘懷的，
不管別人眼中是好是壞
在自己的心中總是甜甜的回憶

愛一個人，就可以愛一輩子不變嗎？每對熱戀中的情人都渴望一生
一世山盟海誓，但，承諾了一輩子，就真的可以幸福美滿了嗎？
　　
人的心思，大概是最難捉摸也最難預估的，有時候，也許是一件事、
一個觸發、一個領悟，就可以改變一個人的思想，雖然不至於讓一個
人徹頭徹尾轉了性子，卻也可能讓一個人的行為與之前有了差異。
　
　說不定，就這麼一秒的瞬間，你可能更愛情人，
也可能發現到好像，不那麼愛了。
永恆的只有── 活在當下的霎那 ~
才能使這論壇茁壯,才能看到世上更多更美好事物

愛一個人，是一種當下的感覺。
這一刻的感覺能不能持續到永久，
誰能夠很肯定地拍胸脯保證？

　　總以為，今天愛，不代表明天還愛；明天還愛，不代表後天還要愛。
　　當日子一天天過去，愛的感覺可能日益增長，自然也可能日漸消褪。
　　所以，誰能保證愛是不會變的呢？

　　在這個世界裡，人與人的相遇愈來愈頻繁，似乎只要一個「機緣巧
合」，就有了相戀的可能。而也許在相愛之後，慢慢地發現了彼此的不
適合，漸漸地把愛磨損，到最後，不愛了。一直都以為，愛是會變的。
　　
因為，人心會變，感受會變。但是，因為愛會變，就決定因噎廢食
地不想愛了嗎？那未免又太過消極了些！
　　
沒錯，愛是會變的，然而，可能變好，可能變壞。聰明的你，想讓
愛有怎樣的變化？
　　
正因為愛會變，人必須學著更成熟地去處理自己心情上的變化；因
為愛會變，人必須懂得去經營愛情，讓愛歷久彌堅。
　　
當你已經盡了最大的努力，卻發現愛依然殘酷地有了改變，那麼也
沒有什麼好遺憾的了，反正別人不愛你，你還可以愛自己。
　　
懂得體認愛的善變，慢慢學著去適應愛所帶來的一切，當愛隨著時
間改變時，你也必須學著時間而有所成長，如此一來，你才能勇敢去面
對因為愛所帶來的任何衝擊，甚至如魚得水。
　　
所以，學著去接受愛是會變的，敞開心胸去擁抱愛的善變，
那麼，
你將會發現，不管愛怎樣改變，你都可以保有完整的自我，
不讓愛的多變深刻地傷了你。
　　
最後，你會發現，與其祈禱「不要變」，不如讓自己隨愛而變，
當愛消褪時，適時地添柴加溫；
當愛發燒時，適當地緩和兩人的激情。
　　
讓愛可以恆溫地持續下去，
才是真正懂得愛的人

2007-01-17T18:46:00.000+08:00

Nobody is perfect

A man and his girlfriend were married.
It was a large celebration. All of
their friends and family came to see
the lovely ceremony and to partake of
the festivities and celebrations. A
wonderful time was had by all.

The bride was gorgeous in her white
wedding gown and the groom was very
dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone
could tell that the love they had for
each other was true.

A few months later, the wife comes to
the husband with a proposal: "I read
in a magazine a while ago, about how
we can strengthen our marriage." she
offered.

"Each of us will write a list of the
things that we find a bit annoying
with the other person. Then, we can
talk about how we can fix them
together and make our lives happier
together."

The husband agreed, so each of them
went to a separate room in the house
and thought of the things that annoyed
them about the other. They thought
about this question for the rest of
the day and wrote down what they came
up with.

The next morning, at the breakfast
table, they decided that they would go
over their lists.

"I'll start," offered the wife. She
took out her list. It had many items
on it enough to fill 3 pages, in fact.
As she started reading the list of the
little annoyances, she noticed that
tears were starting to appear in her
husbands eyes.

"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing"
the husband replied, "keep reading
your lists."

The wife continued to read until she
had read all three pages to her
husband. She neatly placed her list on
the table and folded her hands over
top of it.

"Now, you read your list and then
we'll talk about the things on both of
our lists." She said happily.

Quietly the husband stated, "I don't
have anything on my list. I think that
you are perfect the way that you are.
I don't want you to change anything
for me. You are lovely and wonderful
and I wouldn't want to try and change
anything about you."

The wife, touched by his honesty and
the depth of his love for her and his
acceptance of her, turned her head and
wept.

Though of the day:
In life, there are enough times when
we are disappointed, depressed and
annoyed. We don't really have to go
looking for them.

We have a wonderful world that is full
of beauty, light and promise.

Why waste time in this world looking
for the bad, disappointing or annoying
when we can look around us, and see
the wondrous things before us?

I believe that WE ARE HAPPIEST WHEN we
see and praise the good and try our
best to forget the bad. Nobody's
perfect but we can find perfect ness
in them to change the way we see them

2007-01-11T20:47:00.000+08:00

read tis wonderful article from allysa's blog..hope to share it v my friends here

世上所有的人，都在研究 [爱] 是怎么一个东西，

他们不断的在做试验，失败了又在开始新的一段，

为什么爱能加深一段感情呢？为什么爱也能让人心碎呢？

为什么陌生人可以变成情人？又从情人变回陌生人呢？

在爱情里，没有谁对不起谁，只有谁不懂得珍惜谁，

爱，没有对或错，也没得计算出来，

爱，能让人看见一道光明，也能让人迷失在黑暗里，

爱，总是让人欢喜让人忧？让人幸福的笑也让人悲伤的泣？

爱，是个没有答案的考卷？回答了也不知对或错？

爱，是一种非常危险的游戏？输或赢只有走到最后才知吗？

爱，真的有保存期限吗？那么一生一世的爱又会怎样的呢？

到底怎样的爱才算是真爱？

我对[爱] 已开始不清楚了。您们是否又知道何为爱呢？

2006-11-27T20:39:00.000+08:00

Love is something that is not easily explained
No one word can express it
And no one person feels the same about it
It's waking up in the morning
wanting to be with that one person
And going to bed feeling the same way
It's knowing that you want to spend the rest of your life with him
And it's a feeling so great that no matter what anyone says will never be taken away
It's crying every night when the one you love doesn’t love you back
It’s feeling that pain in your heart when you lose that one person.
But to just hear those three little words come from his mouth
And actually know he means it
That’s the best feeling in the world
To know that someone loves you for you
And wants to be with you forever
Love is hard to find, and even harder to keepI
t takes time and effort to keep it going
But you don’t mind because you woulddo anything in the world to keep it
It’s knowing that when you come home
you’ll have someone to share your day with
It’s that last conversation of the night before you fall asleep
He’s the first one you want when youwake up
The only thing that’s on your mind all day,
every dayIt's knowing that someone’s always there for you to cry on
Someone’s always there for you to talk to about anything
And won’t judge you for that
It’s the person you feel the mostcomfortable with in the world
And to know that you have that
That you share that special bond withone other person
That’s the best feeling in the world.
But when you lose that feeling
When you lose the only thing that evermattered to you
It seems like life has no purpose, nopoint at all
You feel like you could just curl upand die
That nothing or no one else matters to you
And the only thing that you’ve everwanted is now gone
And you will do anything to get himback,
Because he’s worth it
You’ll try and try until one day yourealize
That things will never be the same again.
Your love is still there, deep insideof you
So you try your best to just befriends,
And it works for a while
But the feelings are still there
And no matter how hard you try
friend will never be good enough
So you want to forget about him,
but that’s even harder
There’s too many memories, to many good times to just forget
And no matter what you do,
he’s always there
Everywhere you look, everything you do, every place you go,
Every song you hear, every guy you see
Reminds you of him
And you hope some day you’ll be backtogether
But until then there’s nothing you can do
But sit and cry, to go through that pain when he talks aboutAnother girl he likes,
or how good his life is going
And that pain breaks your heart day after day
Tear after tear,
until you have no mores tears to cry
Until you just get used to that holein your heart that won’t go away,
That pain that never leaves you
That lonely feeling that stays with you forever
And you may have other guys, but nothing or no one could ever compare,
and you know that.

2006-11-03T01:14:00.000+08:00

GEMINI WOMAN

A good looking woman with brains, a very interesting person. She has a fast movement and she could not sit still or stand still long. She is able to do many things at the same time and do it fast. If you date her, you will feel like dating many women at the same time. You can not tie her down with the word "Love" because she cares about love but is it not a major factor of her life. You have to be able to adjust yourself to get along with her many different characters.

She is a dreamer and has many dreams. She eager to learn something new all the time. Even she is the 2 in 1 mixed character type, she is quite lucky in love. You have to put all your efforts to win her affection. Even when she likes you and wonder about your wit, she will also see and inspect your bad side at the same time, because it is in her nature.

She able to keep all kinds of mixed emotions without annoying you or letting you know at all. She can cheer you up by acting like a free little bird. Her conversation will not bored you. She able to talk to you in any subjects. She can make you feel like you are the luckiest man alive. She can make you feel like she needs all your care, but once she needs to stand alone, she can stand alone firmly an comfortably.

She can be your best buddy and talk to you about anything. She can join all your activities with the same energy that you have. She is a quick wit person and learn new things very fast. She can see your projects and she can give you good advice. If she thinks you are not sure that you want her for yourself, she will act like your best friend only, a cool woman.

She can easily make a guy fall in love with her. Her multiple changes and many moods is a "Charm" for many men. She can be laughing for 2 minutes and later suddenly quiet. She wants to find only 1 true love and she wants to meet her dream guy. She expects a lot and nearly too much. She is constantly waiting for her knight shinning armor even she is with a steady boy friend. She can fall in love or fond of someone else while she is with you. If you break up with her, she will forget you quite fast, because change is in her nature. The Gemini woman breaks more heart than woman in other Zodiac. Because she is a dreamer and always waiting for her knight shinning armor ,so her love life can be complex or a mess.

She hates to write a long letter, so if you write her a letter and expect a prompt reply, forget it. Because she has a multiple personality and multiple ideas, so she hates to put them down in written proof. Because she knows what she belief today can be different tomorrow.

She could communication with more than 1 languages , a real gifted linguistic. If she wants to tell you any bad comments, she won't say it straight away, but she will talk to you about many other things and accidentally come to that subject without offending you. Normally she will not lie.

She will work hard and once a while take a long rest. She can get bored and tired with her own surrounding more than at work. She never feel content with her present work, money, or reputations, she will drive to have more. Don't ask her what is her ultimate contentment for she will not have an answer.

Once you get to know her, she will be a supportive person and always be beside you. She has a beautiful dream and she loves to have someone walk side by side with her, together and equally.

2006-10-30T13:46:00.000+08:00

失恋是有好处的。

　　世上只要发生的事情没有纯好纯坏之分。我们伸手去摘玫瑰，不免会被玫瑰枝上的刺伤到手。

　　失恋更多的时候，是让我们避免将来更大的婚姻悲剧，明明两个人不合适，没有必要固守一生。想想以后的生活里天天充满争吵与怨恨，还不如早早分手。

　　失恋是在年轻时。以为爱情就像是书里电影里所描写的那样轰轰烈烈，你死我活，山盟海誓。“不识庐山真面目，只缘身在庐山中”。当我们退后，现实爱情才显出真面目。

　　爱情是需要懂得的。

　　失恋让我们悲伤地流出泪水，其实那是用来冲刷我们面前正视自己镜子用的液体。我们会发现自己的缺点，是不是很任性，是不是不够宽容？改正了缺点，就像给足了玫瑰的养分，让下次的爱情之花盛开更娇艳美丽。

　　失恋是让我们学会珍惜，也许是因为了解失去的痛苦，更让我们学会如何去珍惜以后所拥有的爱情。失恋如同面粉的发酵，只是让蒸出的馍馍更好松软更可口。

　　失恋是为了认识真正的爱情。不少的丑陋及欺骗为了达到自己的目的披着爱情的彩衣招摇撞骗。失恋能增添透能力及心灵的智慧。

　　失恋是给我们感受更广阔的亲情及友谊。没有了爱情，才真心体会父母的关心与呵护，只有他们才是自己最后的堡垒。没有了爱情，才会用心融入友情的氛围，在无边黑夜里，是她们陪自己流泪。

　　失恋往往是让我们事业更上一层楼。因为不再为世上另一个人担心忧虑，不用急急赶去约会，才会安心去加班，主动请示工作，在事业面前一跃千里。

　　我问一位写手前辈，如何能让我写作水平提高的快一点？他说，去失一次恋吧。拥有爱情可以一天让我们成为诗人。而失恋很可能让我们成为文学家，因为文学需要深刻。这倒是失恋很不错的好处。

　　其实失恋的好处主要是丰富我们的经历，抛开李敖说的“爱情包括失恋，拥有失恋的爱情才是完整的爱情”不算，经历才是我们人生中最重要的东西。